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Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? Get in touch at Take our free training for men at


217: When sex is about more than just the sex. (ft. Jason Lange)
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216: Special GuyTalk: Sexual challenge, consciousness work, and relationship
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215: Are you intimidated by her emotions? Here’s what to do (ft. Jason Lange)
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214: How does the father wound affect a man? (ft. Jason Lange)
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213: “Why isn’t my wife attracted to me anymore?” (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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212: Have you had a disappointing love life? (ft. Dr. Thomas Jordan)
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211: One of the deepest modalities I've encountered thus far (ft. Jessica Hagan)
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210: Dating after 40 -- turns out it can be better than ever (ft. Jade Chang Sheppard)
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209: "I knew I wanted something different, but didn't know how to get there." (Jason Lange)
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208: GuyTalk: "I used to suck at girls ... and now I don't."
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207: Staying together for the kids? There are things you should know. (ft. Jason Lange)
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206: “Our first sex was terrible ... and here's why I married him” (ft. Anna Rova)
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205: So an introvert and an extrovert walk into a bar… (ft. Jason Lange)
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204: GirlTalk: Gettin' down and dirty. We're talking blow jobs! [replay]
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203: Let's Get Real Bro: Is the missing piece in your relationship life bros? (ft. Weston Karnes)
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202: 'Our sex life isn't working, but other things in the relationship are. What do we do?' (ft. Jason Lange)
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201: 'Life was one big party I wasn't invited to': Overcoming social anxiety (ft. Ryan Black)
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200: GirlTalk: What makes a man trustable?
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199: Want to overcome trauma quickly? De-armoring can help (ft. Sunny Ju)
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198: Want a harder cock more of the time? Screw Viagra. Do this. (ft. Brian Ayers)
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197: How does fatherhood change a man? (ft. Tripp Lanier)
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196: The “invisible” relationship pattern that can affect everything (ft. Jason Lange)
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195: Good vs. bad couples counseling -- what to know (ft. Figs O'Sullivan)
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194: The "Orgy King" who overcame crippling sexual insecurity (ft. Kenneth Play)
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193: Want freedom from attachment? You can get there. (ft. Tracy Crossley)
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192: Opposites attract, but can they repair? (ft. Azrya & Benjamin Bequer)
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191: Supporting a woman in her sexual pleasure & healing (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola) [replay]
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190: Responding to a woman's criticism masterfully (ft. Jason Lange)
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189: GirlTalk: Does size matter?
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188: Want to date well? Getting to the "hard stuff" fast can help (ft. CanWe founder Russ Haywood)
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187: Sex worker talks virgins & threesomes & brothels, oh my! (ft. Alice Little)
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186: GirlTalk: Approaching us in the wild (the "cold approach") [replay]
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185: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding) [replay]
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184: GirlTalk: Men, money, and masculinity
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183: "I'm fine." Handling passive aggression with grace (ft. Jason Lange)
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182: Is your partner a survivor of sexual trauma? What to expect & how to help (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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181: What exactly is polarity? We break it down. (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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180: Top 3 things we’ve learned after coaching men on sex & relationships for years (ft. Jason Lange)
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179: Why’s it so hard for me to approach my wife/partner for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)
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178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)
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177: What's it like being a "wing girl" to thousands of men? (ft. Marni Kinrys, of the Wing Girl Method)
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176: Men, weed, alcohol, and love. (ft. Jason Lange)
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175: Repair conversations, MDMA, and love (ft. Jayson Gaddis)
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174: How knowing your "hottest sexual movie" can make for smokin' sex (ft. Celeste Hirschman)
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173: Conscious Cock. What is it and how can it help you? (ft. Kristopher Lovestone)
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172: Revealing my sex research, one stat at a time (ft. Robbie Kramer)
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171: Adventures in cross-cultural dating (ft. Robbie Kramer)
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170: How do you overcome sexual shame? (ft. Becky Carter)
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169: Making after-sex cleanup awesome, one couple at a time (ft. Frances Tang)
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168: From Christian pastor to stripper! How she overcame religious trauma (ft. Nikole Mitchell)
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167: How do I meet women to date in real life (instead of on dating apps)? ft. Camille Virginia
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166: Can psychedelics help heal you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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165: From Air Force Captain to personal growth leader (ft. Bryan Reeves)
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164: What exactly *is* tantra? (ft. Devi Ward Erickson)
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163: Ever had red-hot sex with someone who's bad for you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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162: What's the difference between porn sex and real-life sex? A woman porn director explains (ft. Holly Randall)
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161: 3 common ways women try to control men in relationships (ft. Simone Milasas)
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160: She went from not wanting sex at all to deep, fulfilling sex (ft. Irene Fehr)
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159: It happens to boys, too. Somatic therapies to heal from sexual abuse (ft. Rahi Chun)
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158: How "radical authenticity" can transform your dating & relationship life (ft. Connell Barrett)
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157: How to talk dirty during sex -- while making her feel safe (ft. Ashley Manta) [REPLAY]
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156: The new dating app that gets you more dates! (ft. Zach Schleien of Filter Off)
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155: How to overcome anxious/avoidant attachment in relationship (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)
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154: Can I have female friends when in a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
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153: Her sexual healing: How to support her *and* get your needs met (ft. Violet Lange)
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152: GirlTalk: How to go down on a woman so she *loves* it
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151: Curious about consent? Intimacy Coordinators for sex scenes break it down (ft. Jenifer Yeuroukis & Sarah-Jane Hill)
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150: Want a happy, healthy relationship? This could be holding you back. (ft. Ben Goresky & Mark Wolynn)
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149: "My wife doesn't want sex anymore." It could be time for this. (ft. Jason Lange)
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148: Being a male virgin in your 20s, 30s, or beyond (ft. Jason Lange)
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147: Are you afraid of her emotions? Here’s what’s important to know (ft. Jason Lange)
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146: Special GuyTalk/GirlTalk: Ghosting. Let's break it down.
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145: How to "do" attachment well, according to a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn) [REPLAY]
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144: Should you stay together for the kids? (ft. Jason Lange)
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143: GirlTalk: Dating apps: Our experience (as straight women)
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142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why (ft. Jason Lange)
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141: GuyTalk: Bullying, resilience, and relationships
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140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)
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139: How to Not Die Alone (ft. Logan Ury & Kristen Berman)
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138: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her? [Replay]
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137: Should you stay friends with her? (ft. Jason Lange)
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136: GuyTalk: Dating after divorce
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135: How being 'disrespectful' could help your sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
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134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why (ft. Jason Lange)
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133: GirlTalk: Masturbation!
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132: What if she's not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)
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131: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This dynamic could be why (ft. Shana James)
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130: GirlTalk: The best sex we've ever had :)
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129: Setting boundaries with family. 'Tis the season! (ft. Violet Lange)
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128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
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127: The secret to inspiring your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells) [replay]
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126: If you don't want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? (ft. Jason Lange)
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125: 2 sex coaches open up about men, love, and growth (ft. Shana James) [replay]
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124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back
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123: The best therapy to help your sex & love life (might not be what you think) (ft. Z Zoccolante)
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122: The 3 different kinds of female orgasm! (ft. Melanie Scott) [replay]
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121: A brilliant & inexpensive alternative to couples therapy! (ft. Mark & Ayesha)
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120: What if you're still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? (ft. Jason Lange)
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119: GirlTalk: Blowjobs! What we like and don't like in oral sex on men
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118: GirlTalk: Cheating. We get personal.
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117: What does it look like for *women* to "do the work"? (ft. Violet Lange)
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116: Dating during COVID-19: how does it work? (ft. Violet Lange)
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115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
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114: GirlTalk: The 1 relationship skill to rule them all
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113: The sexiest vacation you can take (ft. Mario Cruz)
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112: How quitting porn supercharged this man's sex life (ft. Jason Lange)
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111: GuyTalk: 3 black men talk sex, dating & relationships (ft. Jules, Graze, and Ahmad)
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110: GirlTalk: 3 black girls talk dating (ft. Ivy, Nina, and Amber)
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109: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [replay]
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108: The key to dating with ease & overcoming anxiety in sex & relationships [replay]
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107: Race, Privilege, and Healthy Masculine Leadership (ft. John Wineland, Preston Smiles, Dr. Siri Sat Nam, and Connor Beaton)
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106: Getting sex back in a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman) [replay]
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105: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet! (Yes, really) [replay]
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104: What does it mean to "do the work"? (ft. Jason Lange)
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103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)
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102: BONUS GirlTalk - on men being in their power
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101: First-ever listener panel! on owning power as a man (ft. Ben, David & Mark)
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100: Being masculine & having emotions: how to "do" it well (ft. John Schinnerer)
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99: A power couple talks about power in their relationship (ft. Jason & Violet Lange)
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98: How to boost your sex appeal by owning your power (ft. Kevin O'Malley)
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97: Using a matchmaker: what to know (ft. Matchmaker May)
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96: How do you date if you have a mental illness? (ft. Jim of
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95: How NLP can dramatically help your sex & love life (ft. Mark Sing)
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94: Real-life sexual healing (ft. Melissa Davison, Certified Sexological Bodyworker)
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93: An unexpected way to improve your dating life quickly (ft.
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92.5: Dr. Robert Glover: 5 essential dating tips for men [REPLAY]
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92: How to do dirty talk! (ft. Ashley Manta)
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91: Need more touch in your life? Try this (ft. Soleiman)
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90: 2 simple hacks to improve presence in sex (ft. Ashley Manta)
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89: Tantric dating: What is it & how can it help you? (ft. Catherine Auman)
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88: The Truth About Marriage (ft. Roger Nygard)
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87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)
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86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)
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85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogue
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84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)
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83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)
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82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)
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81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)
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80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Lovely of GoodPorn)
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79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)
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78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!
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77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)
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76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
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76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?
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75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)
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74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)
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73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisite
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72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?
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71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]
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70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a man
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69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)
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68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)
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67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)
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66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.
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65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]
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64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)
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63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)
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62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
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61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for men
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60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]
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59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)
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58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)
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57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)
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56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)
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55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)
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54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)
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53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)
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52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?
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51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differently
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50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)
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49: The key to dating with ease (for men)
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48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)
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47 - A love poem for you
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46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasies
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45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!
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44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)
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43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)
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42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)
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41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]
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41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?
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40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)
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39: Navigating Personal Space vs. Togetherness in Relationship (ft. Jason Lange)
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38: GuyTalk: Casual sex -- a male perspective
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37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher
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36: GirlTalk: Casual Sex!
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35: Keeping sex hot in a long-term relationship (ft. Violet Lange)
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34: Men Being Awesome: 9 More Stories
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33: 10 Times Men Have Been Allies to Me
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32: What to say if your woman was assaulted
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31: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling
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30: GirlTalk: How to Flirt Like a Boss ;)
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29: What it's actually like to be polyamorous
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28: The Day I Outgrew Pickup (ft. Jason Lange)
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27: Hacking Masculine Presence (ft. Johnny Blackburn)
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26: How Men & Women Communicate Differently (ft. Rob Kandell)
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25: GuyTalk: Dating apps - a male perspective
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24: GirlTalk: Dating Apps -- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly
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23: The 3 types of female orgasms (ft. Melanie Scott)
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22: What's really up with "fear of commitment"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)
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21: GirlTalk: How to Soothe an Upset Woman
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20: How to Attract the Right Women (and Not the Wrong Ones) (ft. Jason Lange)
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19: Sex Talk With a Former Professional Dominatrix
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18: The secret to being masculine isn't what you think (ft. Jeffrey Platts)
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17: How to pursue women correctly (ft. Josh Klaasen)
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16: The top 5 things we've learned about men (ft. Shana James)
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15: GirlTalk: We crave this from men, and love when they provide it!
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14: How to be a Man in Relationship Instead of a Boy (ft. Martin Hannon)
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13: Advanced Sexual Practices for Men
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12: How to Help a Shut-Down Woman Open Up
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11: What can male strippers teach us about relationships?
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10: Ghosting! We've gotta talk about it. Special GirlTalk/GuyTalk episode
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9: How to date powerful women (ft. Ken Blackman)
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8: How to Deal With "Issues" Fast (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)
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7: How Does a Man Get to Balance? (ft. Eivind F. Skjellum)
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6: From "Nice Guy" to Confident With Women & Married to a Goddess (ft. Jason Lange)
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5: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange)
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4: GuyTalk: 4 Men Respond to GirlTalk
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3: GirlTalk: We love when men do this! Why don't they do it more?!
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2: Pleasurable Sex: A Few Creative Solutions
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1: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante)
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Intro: What is this and why should you care?
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