"Single Mom by Choice" Is That Even the RIght Term Anymore?
35m | Nov 3, 2026Have you ever felt uncomfortable calling yourself a single mom by choice because of what others might think?
Society often treats being single as something negative, leaving women feeling judged, misunderstood, or pressured to explain their decision to become mothers on their own.
In this episode, Dr. Ambra and Tesh explore the meaning behind the term “single mom by choice” and why it can bring up complicated feelings. They discuss how societal expectations shape our views on motherhood, singleness, and family, and how self-reflection, kindness, and curiosity can help us embrace our choices with greater confidence.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- Why the term “single mom by choice” can bring up feelings of shame, judgment, or pride.
- How societal expectations influence the way we view single motherhood and family structures.
- How to explore your feelings about the word “single” and challenge the beliefs behind them.
- Why kindness, curiosity, and open conversations can help create a more supportive community for single moms by choice.
Whether you identify as a single mom, solo mom, or simply a mom, this conversation invites you to embrace your own journey and make room for every woman’s story.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Take the Solo Mom By Choice Readiness Quiz
EmpowHERing SMBC Trailblazers™ Program
LET’S CONNECT!
Dr. Ambra Brown
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Tesh Alvaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/infinite_breath_coaching/
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/infinitebreathcoaching
Email address: 2singlemomsandadonordaddy@gmail.com
Watch episode on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@2singlemomsandadonordaddy
CHAPTERS:
01:20 – Why Single Feels Loaded
04:00 – Single Versus Solo
06:46 – Owning The Choice
10:17 – When Labels Come Up
16:16 – Challenge The Discomfort
18:14 – Judgment And Father Narratives
21:59 – Bali Story And Inspiration
