Coeli's Journey into SMBC
52m | Mar 31, 2026What if the life you’ve been waiting for… doesn’t require a partner at all?
So many women quietly hold onto the dream of motherhood—but delay it, question it, or abandon it altogether because it doesn’t fit the “traditional” timeline or relationship status. You might be telling yourself you’ll get there someday… when the right person comes along.
But what if that waiting is the very thing standing between you and the family you deeply desire?
In this episode, we sit down with Coeli Jones, who chose a different path, one that required courage, clarity, and a willingness to trust herself fully. From navigating family reactions to making big fertility decisions, Coeli shares what it really looks like to become a single mom by choice… and why sometimes the most unexpected outcomes (hello, twins at 50!) end up being exactly what was meant for you.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL DISCOVER:
- The powerful difference between being a single mom by choice vs. by circumstance—and why it matters
- What the fertility journey can really look like, from IUI to IVF to double donor conception
- How to navigate family resistance and find support (even when it doesn’t come right away)
- Why community, donor connections, and trusting your intuition can completely transform your experience
If you’ve ever felt the pull toward motherhood—but questioned how it could happen—this episode might just expand what you believe is possible.
RESOURCES MENTIONED:
Take the Solo Mom By Choice Readiness Quiz
EmpowHERing SMBC Trailblazers™ Program
LET’S CONNECT!
Dr. Ambra Brown
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Linktree: https://linktr.ee/drambrahealthcoach
Tesh Alvaro
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/infinite_breath_coaching/
Linktree: https://linktr.ee/infinitebreathcoaching
Email address: 2singlemomsandadonordaddy@gmail.com
Watch episode on YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/@2singlemomsandadonordaddy
CHAPTERS:
07:43 – Choosing Single Motherhood
09:15 – Single Mom by Choice vs. by Circumstance
11:47 – Family Reactions (and Dad’s Transformation)
19:43 – Fertility Journey & Donor Decisions
24:56 – Community Support Changes Everything
30:01 – Donor Sibling Connections
37:58 – Finding Out It’s Twins
43:29 – Self-Care & Identity as a Mom
