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I Used to Apologize for Caring About Winning

12m | Sep 1, 2026

Coaches are supposed to say winning isn’t everything. For a long time, I felt like I had to apologize for wanting to win too much.

But wanting to win and caring about your players aren’t opposites.

In this episode of Between Whistles, I talk about why I stopped apologizing for being competitive, what winning can teach when it’s kept in perspective, and why pretending the scoreboard doesn’t matter may not be the lesson we think it is.

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