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Stop Dividing and Conquering: A Better Way to Run Your Family | Blake & Chandler Allsmith (EP469)

35m | Oct 13, 2026

Between school schedules, household responsibilities, extracurricular activities, and everything else that comes with raising kids, it's easy for family life to start feeling like a series of tasks we're simply trying to get through. But what if we stopped dividing and conquering and started working together?

Today, I'm joined by Blake and Chandler Allsmith, parents of seven and authors of The Family Framework, to talk about building a more connected, intentional family culture. Drawing from their experience in business and parenting, they share how simple systems can help families move from merely managing the chaos to actually functioning as a team. We discuss why efficiency shouldn't always be the goal, how to get everyone working toward a shared vision, and why involving our kids in everyday family life builds confidence, competence, and connection.

This conversation is a reminder that a well-functioning family isn't necessarily one that gets everything done the fastest. It's one that's learning to do life together.

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About Blake & Chandler |

Blake and Chandler Allsmith are the authors of The Family Framework and parents of seven children.

Blake is a former tech CEO who went on to build and sell a growth marketing agency, where he helped grow 100+ brands. He's now Head of Growth at Synthweave. He has spoken at TEDx, advises for Techstars and 500 Startups, and supports a venture capital firm as an Entrepreneur-in-Residence.

Chandler is a homemaker, writer, homeschool co-op leader, and real estate investor - and she is the heart behind many of the systems they've created.

Together, they homeschool, launch companies, invest in real estate, and live a big, beautiful, messy and loud life where the lines between work, family, play and ministry are as blurred as possible.

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