Unshrinkable: Why Women Must Stop Playing Small with Dr. Darby Bonomi
41m | May 5, 2026Have you ever felt like you were "shrinking to fit" into a life that was just too small for you?
In this episode, I’m sitting down with Dr. Darby Bonomi, a licensed psychologist and lifelong equestrian who has created a "trail map" for women ready to claim their space.
We aren't just talking about career moves; we’re talking about the "silent rules" that keep us quiet and the four-letter word "just" that acts as an invitation to self-betrayal. Whether you are a teenager navigating high school or a professional in a major life transition, this episode is a reminder that your ambition truly is your compass.
The Threads We Follow:
- Movement as Medicine: Why "saddling up" even when you're scared is the only way to find your center.
- The Perfectionism Paradox: When the drive that made you successful starts to become the curse that keeps you isolated.
- The "Just" Trap: How we diminish our own worth through the language we use every day.
- Mistakes as Data: Learning to see a "fall" in life the same way an equestrian sees a "fall" in the saddle as a lesson for the next ride.
- Intergenerational Enoughness: The one truth every woman, from 16 to 60, needs to hear about her own power.
Radical Takeaways:
"Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway."
"A mistake is just a data point. It’s not a sign of failure; it’s a lesson for the next step."
Connect with Dr. Darby Bonomi
The Book:Unshrinkable
Website: darbybonomi.com
Instagram: @drdarbybonomi
